06 - The Church

Summary

Core truth: You can't follow Jesus alone. The local church is where this life is meant to be lived, and baptism and communion are how we mark and feed that life together.
Anchor text: 1 Corinthians 12:12-14
This week's step: If you haven't been baptised, talk to a pastor about it. Commit to a weekly gathering and one way to serve.

Before you start

Two big practical things land today: the church itself, and the two ordinances every Christian needs to understand, baptism and communion. Both are probably about to happen to or around them, so don't leave them vague. This is also the most counter-cultural session. Lots of people now treat faith as a private, solo thing, while Scripture doesn't.

Connect

Pick up the habit.

Transition: we've talked about you and God; today we talk about you and God's people.

Read

Read this together.

1 Corinthians 12:12-14 (ESV)

For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, Jews or Greeks, slaves or free, and all were made to drink of one Spirit. For the body does not consist of one member but of many.

Dig

Let them answer first. Draw this out.

  1. Paul calls the church a body, with Christ as the head. What does a body part on its own, cut off from the body, actually do? What's he saying about going solo?
  2. Verse 13 says we were all baptised into one body. So church isn't a club you join, it's a body you've been made part of. How does that change how you see "going to church"?
  3. If you're a part of a body, the body needs you, not just you needing it. What might that mean for how you show up?

Frame

The church is family, not an event. When you came to Christ you were joined to his body. Following Jesus was never meant to be a private hobby you do alone and top up once a week. There are things about God you can only experience together. The call is to actually live in the local church: gather, belong, serve, give, and let other people know you.

What makes a gathering an actual church (not just a nice Christian event like a Bible study or worship night)? Three things, historically:

  1. The gospel is truly preached. God's Word, rightly taught. Where a different gospel is taught, it isn't a true church.
  2. Baptism and communion are practised. These are shared, never solo.
  3. There's real leadership and authority. Pastors and elders responsible for the people.

Then teach the two ordinances plainly, because a new believer needs this:

Baptism.

Communion (the Lord's Supper).

A quick word on giving. You'll hear a lot of noise about money in church. Keep it simple: God's people have always given generously and cheerfully to his work, and you get to be part of that. It's worship, we give as someone who's been given everything.

Land

For some that's a relief, for some it's confronting. Talk about it. Where's the resistance, or where's the longing?

Next Steps

Pray

Thank God that he didn't save us into isolation but into a family.

Leader Notes

  • Make baptism concrete, not theoretical. The action step is the point, lead them towards being baptised.
  • Demystify communion before their next Sunday. Aim for them never to sit confused at the Lord's table again. Christ is present in the partaking of communion by faith.
  • On giving, don't get drawn into a tithing-percentage debate with a brand-new believer. Generosity and joy are the heart of it.

Next: 07 - Meeting With God